Deciphering the "Exit Affair"

Sometimes cheating is a way of saying "It is finished"

If "actions speak louder than words", so what say the actions of infidelity?

When infidelity is a matter of production, this is what he said: "I want out of this marriage, but I'm too scared to approach you directly on the issue, I want out of this marriage, but I fear his anger. I much prefer to end it. want out of this marriage, but I do not want to go through all the turmoil of divorce itself. And in the end, the truth is I do not want to be alone. was not that I did not want to marry or not believe in marriage - I do - I just do not want to marry you I'm afraid most of you, if I need help to help me. Throughout this test event and want to be with someone when it's over. "




The joint is lost in case the production decided - consciously or unconsciously - that the marriage is over and no longer want to work in the relationship. They want out of the box and is a way of saying, "It is", without engaging in open and honest communication - something that has not happened in the marriage for a long time or perhaps simply never existed.

The purpose of the case, the output is forced to non-partner lost in ending the lost marriage partner desperately wants closed.

"Exit Affair": An outlet when feeling scared and alone

The purpose of the "Exit Affair" is to end the marriage. Period.

Although joint error petrified anticipate the wrath of their husbands during the discovery of the cause, are mortified when considering the high intensity of marital conflict and the work required to solve the problems in the marriage. The case provides a distraction production deliberate focus away from marital problems and drama of the case and the case of the couple away spouse.

The business man or woman who is unhappily married departure may have been faithful throughout the marriage until it reaches the point where they really want out of the marriage and are emotionally ready to participate. At this point, they are not having the courage to put the wheels in motion and do what is necessary to separate. This is when they come in a matter of production achieved.

Knowing that the link partner support case protects Exit. It also provides an excuse to leave. Also, the person who is the case too difficult to end their marriage without having established a love, secure relationship to absorb the tragic ordeal of going through a separation or divorce. They are looking for a loving and supportive partner to help them enter into a marriage that can not conclude on their own. (Remember that this is not the error spouse is anti-marriage, but marriage and their spouses who do not work for them.)

Business with the launch of departing spouse needs something external to force the issue, because the intensity of anger expected from their partner if they ask directly divorce scared and stop.

Is it a case of out?

The joint in question is lost production often falls for his business partner felt the binding partner is his true love. This gives the husband lost further momentum and force to end the marriage - and makes it more difficult (or impossible) to turn toward marriage during discovery. Out of business usually last longer than other cases and joint distraction and business partner has, deeper, more complete any connections.

A case of discharge to be in the public domain or binding partner can be introduced into the marital home. Perhaps the mistake together and sharing the associated bonding interactions with each other friends and family (parents and children). The relationship is multidimensional and comprehensive. The characteristics of your partner is more like a couple in a clandestine relationship d ', complete secret romance superficial.

Because the case of production has these characteristics, the magnitude of the betrayal is huge.

The betrayed spouse totally devastated to the point that initiates the divorce seems the only option. Stay in marriage does not seem possible that the obstacle to staying married is too steep to overcome. The spouse who really wants - consciously or unconsciously - developed a way to secure a divorce without being sincere about wanting one and not require the partner to directly confront your partner or admit fault in the marriage. The story goes outwards so:. "We have a divorce because of the story of" The silent part is:. "We're getting a divorce because our marriage had deep fissures and became unbearable" An important element in the case of the production is the inability or unwillingness to be honest and sincere.

Divorcing the Betrayer

If the output dynamics Affair goes as planned, then the betrayed spouse initiate a divorce and both the betrayed spouse and treacherous turn their attention to the divorce process --- to ignore the fatal flaws in marriage. It can take years for the pain of betrayal and the deterioration of divorce to calm himself before the betrayed spouse can analyze marriage and determine the reasons for failure.

Exit The case is a painful - more painful if you explain the real reasons - the dissolution of a committed relationship and family. It is much more complicated than a complicated situation and virtually guarantees that the bitterness and acrimony play a key role in the process of divorce.

If you think your husband or wife is involved in a case of the output you have to ask if you think, honestly, that marriage is worth saving. Obviously, when one spouse wants out so bad, the marriage was dead for some time.

Misdirected Anger

Exit if the betrayed spouse directs all his anger at the partner of the box instead of focusing on the adulterous wife and marriage problems marriage brought her painful conclusion. The partner is blamed for civilian purposes, regardless of whether he or she started the case.

The point here is that the couple married and plagued Affair output are unable to cope with each other and try honestly and sincerely, with gaps, conflicts, pain, embarrassment and problems in their marriage. Focusing on the case and the link partner is much easier and safer. The case and business partner become a ray absorb the unspoken anxiety in marriage.

The case provides an output dishonest ends a marriage deeply concerned. Although it is a means to an end, not an excuse to end the marriage, but not the real reason that marriage comes to a painful end.

Withdrawing the set in the case of the production

It is essential that the offending partner learn to deal honestly and find out why he became involved in the case outside the committed relationship. The partner should betray an honest review on marital dissatisfaction that he or she has an incentive to deviate and how the case has contributed to the continued failure of the marriage. Unless the answers are determined and these things are understood, addressed and resolved, he or she will be disadvantaged in both reconciliation with their partner on or off in the formation of a healthy marriage with another. Without accurate and complete understanding of himself in relation to these questions, he or she will probably repeat the same dance and the cycle with a new partner.

What if the case against his back out?

If a case is issued without success and for some reason the error spouse leaves the marriage and divorce does not exist, the sadness of the great relationship. What happens is that the original conflict, drama, disappointment, injury and dissatisfaction are compounded by the profound betrayal of the output Affair (attempt).